Found humanitariandating through hope4dave.com if anyone remembers that one, the funniest humatarian satire ever made (met him in Ethiopia 2005 and next time I came across 'him' was when some RedCross dudes - also great fans - based a 3 day security training based on cases taken from hope4dave). If I remember right humanitariandating was part of the satire with fake links, but it seems it has transformed into something real. Just registered today actually...maybe it is still fake ha ha